2013 (Above photo)

2013 (below)sorry about the blurr.

2015 (below)


$1,000~CASH REWARD!*





and FUN, and

companionship, friendship, the good times, the bad times, and just all of it.!

Yes, I am offering a$1,000 CASH REWARD*, (a finder's fee or recompensa en Espanol)  for the person who is responsible for me meeting the woman that I marry.. We are talking about a normal relationship leading to marriage (not a next day wedding! ha, ha!)  Contrary to what you may think, this is not a joke! :)))  PLEASE SEE THE SIMPLE  DISCLAIMERs  BELOW! I am seriously interested finding and falling in love with Ms. Right and getting married and living happily ever after.   I am offering $1,000 CASH!  And, the finder of the wife will be the guest of honor at our wedding!

Of all the things that could be "wrong" with a guy..... of all the reasons why a woman wouldn't want to be with a guy - He could be a druggie, a heavy drinker, been in jail,  a cheat or liar, been bankrupt a few times, didn't pay his child support, is a woman abuser, etc... NONE OF THEM WOULD APPLY TO ME!  I AM ONE OF "THE GOOD GUYS"!  One of the most common reasons that women are not interested in me is because... I don't fly!  Well, I just don't and that's a given.  She could fly places - with her sister, mother, aunt....anyone but her ex-boyfriend!  ha,ha!     I will travel the U.S. & Canada by car or RV, have taken a train cross country, and may take a short cruise. Driving cross country is great fun with the right person and good music!


If you know of an attractive (cute, pretty, drop dead) lady who might be interested in a guy like me, just copy and paste  my profile (excluding the reward info, of course) and pictures, and send them to her, along with my email address.  She can then write to me if she's interested, and of course, she would be totally anonymous. We can talk online, on the phone,  and if there's a connection and  she's local, we can meet for coffee and see what happens.  If she's not local....well, we'll see what happens online & phone ;  Maybe she would come here for us to meet.   (I might pay for her travel to get here, and I do have many character references, by the way - just ask!)



I am, by my own admission, a wonderful father, to 2 great (by their admission) kids,  both living on the East coast.  I'm very proud of them, have a great  relationship with them and all of my family.

A GOOD GUY - I am honest, responsible, reliable, full of integrity, and totally faithful in a relationship. Character is important to me:  If I tell you something - it's the truth;  If I say that I'll do something - I will do it!  I'm not a player, but I like to play! I sleep well at night because I have a clear conscience!

I am healthy, physically, I'm 5'7" and 180 lbs...workout some,  in OK shape but could lose10 -15  pounds which would melt away  quickly with some good home cooking and great love making! <wink, wink>

Am romantic (Im full of passion, and like holding hands, cuddling, spooning, kissing &PDA, etc).  I love kids, animals, nature, most music, museums and the arts in general, movies, plays, older musical groups in concert, and enjoying the beautiful California scenery and beaches.

I have had several business:  I was a florist for more than 30 years having owned several shops in Boston , Ft  Lauderale, and San Diego, so I love flowers!  I have also organized hundreds of social events with a band or DJ, so I love music!  Currently, I produce an occasional singles dance party (SanDiegoSinglesParties.com)  and am working on a couple of small projects that may or may not materialize. Between things, I drive for Lyft & Uber.

I'm your average,  blue collar type of guy, drive a Jeep (my toy), and use my SUV for passengers.   I don't drink to excess ever, don't smoke and don't do illegal drugs (might do a little mj).  Played a little softball, tennis, bowled, did some down hill skiing, and jet skiing, but haven't done many of these lately, just mostly some apres` skiing!  ha,ha!! 

I like American and ethnic foods, and open to trying other ethnic foods, and also other  entertainment that the woman might like...I'd even go to an opera or ballet with an open mind, providing  that she wouldn't get angry if happened to nod off.  LOL!

I have great credit - way up there!  Always pay my bills on time  and have no debts, and never been bankrupt.  Have few, small assets, includinga great, little condo in Ft Lauderdale (Pompano Beach), Florida, overlooking a sparkling  canal with little fish popping out of the the water and boats sitting on it, and it's about  minutes from the beautiful Ft Lauderale Beach.

I'm not intellectual but am informed on current world events and the economy;  I'm not sophisticated but own 2 tux's!  I can clean up if needed,  and play well with others!  :>)

My primary cook book is, "A man, a can, a microwave"!  LOL! I hate anything to do with the kitchen except eating.  I do eat fairly healthy , however at night I fall into the junk food trap. (Google the song "Junk food Junkie" - that's almost me!).  So, I don't  really cook but recently discovered instant (microwave) mashed potatoes! Yummy!  So, I don't cook, but I'll help with the clean up:

Politically, I'm somewhat in the middle and I can be very politically incorrect and irreverent, 

I am open to all ethnicities, races, and all ages up or down, if the chemistry is there!

I've been married twice. (totally faithful both times) The first time we just weren't right for each other, but we got two great kids out of the marriage..The second time, I was a jerk....that was 18 years ago!  Don't plan on making the same mistakes again.



The woman that I am seeking is ok with what I have and what I don't have.  She should have a pretty face (cute, adorable, or drop dead, etc), be in half way decent shape as I am, and not be "high style" (the less jewelry & make-up, the better for me) or "high maintenance ($wise)"  or a work-aholic, over achiever, or ladder climber wanting to be CEO of IBM!  She should want to make our relationship the top priority in her life, as I would.  I am looking for a fun woman who is active but not one who rides a motorcycle, climbs mountains, wants to sky dive or bungee jump, does quads or swims with sharks, etc,  but still she is fun, playful, frisky, and not prudish. She is a non-smoker. I don't care if she is a good cook - I don't have a sense of smell and I"ll eat everything that she makes!  ha,ha!  If she is not a great dancer, that would a plus! LOL!  I want a woman who's more interested in the the "little things" that I would do for her, rather than the BIG things that a guy could BUY for her!! So, she doesn't have to be perfect - just perfect for me! :)))

I am looking for a woman probably 55-60-65, but she could be of ANY age, up or down, if the chemistry is there!

"I've been searchin' for the daughter of the devil himself and an angel in white...a woman who's a little of both, but she's been no where in sight"  The Eagles, "One of these nights... (I'm gonna find her)".  And so, a somewhat adventurous/ playful  woman, but definitely not prudish.

I'm looking for a woman who is lower maintenance ($ wise) and easy...
 "I don't want clever conversation - I never want to work that hard...just want someone I can talk to.... "    Billy Joel "Just the way you are".

 I am not looking for a Barbie, but no heavy weight women, either.  If she's a taller, that's ok with me.  Chemistry is what matters!

The woman that I'm looking for is not loaded with money (seriously...I'm not jesting!)... from divorce, from her big income, or from inheritance or a will or any other source...  I really want someone on a similar level - kind of "average"...self supportive, but we would be better with the 2 incomes combined!


TO BE HONEST AND UPFRONT, HERE ARE THE MOST COMMON REASONS THAT WOMEN ARE NOT INTERESTED IN ME, so it just depends on what she's looking for and what's important to her:

1)   I don't fly (in planes). (But I will take fun road trips anywhere & maybe short cruises)

2)  I am not LOADED with money and I do work.  No interest in retiring anytime soon (but I can take time whenever i want)  

3)  I am not religious (but she can be of any main stream religion if not practicing...much)

4) I am over 68 ( but I'm told that I look and act much younger,  and I have a lot of energy and in  pretty good shape).  Will gladly take and send more pictures if  she would  like.


Please ask any questions that you like...

You can see me being interviewed by ...

 the Boston Herald, Dec. 2012  at..


and by

ABC TV San Diego, Oct 2014 at 


You can also see me (with many more pictures) on

FACEBOOK:  https://www.facebook.com/daviebabe

POF.com ....screen name -  BostonSanDiegoFTL

and also.

SeniorPeopleMeet.com...screen name  -  FunAndFaithful

I'm Hoping to hear from that special woman - maybe you or someone that you know?!?

RECENT PHOTOS of her would be a requirement for us to start a conversation. 


The reward does not apply for a woman that I already know,  or a woman that I meet at an event that I host.

The "finder" who refers, or introduces me to the woman, must make him or herself known to me by email within one week of me meeting or being introduced to her.   (so that if <and after> I marry the woman, a person can not then claim that they were the one who introduced us, so as to claim the reward!  Fair is Fair!  So, if you refer a woman to me, let me know in Email, ASAP!)

The reward remains valid while it is posted on this website.


Thank you and best wishes to all who took the time to look and or respond!  


Please send email and photos of the woman to me, at